There were two hearts who met in a dance. That moment was magical. There was a sweet song playing, there was harmony and soon Love in the air. They fell in love and started building castles in their dreams and promised forever with all certainty. But, somewhere in the midst of fun, they got lost in the dance, something went wrong but they can never do anything. They were just drifting away, their fortress is falling apart. There were so many question, but no one had an answer.

The music stopped and there was silence...

When we truly love someone, we give our best and let that person see the pureness of our intension. but sometimes that person makes us cry and hurts us for the wrong reason. That someone must have loved us but he has not loved us enough to make him stand for what he truly felt.

Now we are faced with the seemingly impossible task of forgetting. We have burdened ourselves long enough but we still can't get out of this emotional trap. Let us remember that the more we try to forget someone we love, the more painful letting go will become.

Sometimes we never had to take that person out of our hearts at all, for he will always be there no matter how hard we try to drive him away. It isn't his presence that makes this difficult. It is our stubbornness to accept our destiny that aligns forgetting next to impossible.

We keep a cold face by deep in our hearts, there is still that lingering hope for reconciliation. Somehow, we still believe that we can rekindle small embers and relight the fire that once burned in our hearts. These thoughts give us hope but it also breeds of loneliness and despair.

The only way to forget is to accept and the only way to move on is to look ahead and let the footprints of the past be blown by the wind of time. Only then can our hearts find a partner in the DANCE OF LIFE and hopefully never get lost again.

Your Blogging Type is Logical and Principled


You like to voice your well thought out opinions on your blog.

And if someone doesn't what you write, you really don't care!

Serious and blunt, sometimes people take your blog the wrong way.

But you're a true and loyal friend to those who truly get you.

Out of the blue, while my office mates are on a break; I was curious what was my blogging personality. I actually based my answer here from my other blog. I am the person who is really fond of surveys. I sometimes use these surveys to get to know myself more although I don't completelety judge myself through the results of any surveys or any tests. But still, I think, in some ways, they can help you assess yourself and get to know some unknown facts of ourselves.

Labels: personality tests, surveys

I'm not really good in words when describing or to let you understand what I want to impart but I'll be writing this topic based on experience.

Back to the lather, yes, long distance relationships. Difficult and really takes a lot of trust between the two of you. Long distance relationships are difficult, as you are emotionally attached to a person you cannot touch or comfort (hug, kiss or hold hands) and this can hurt your heart and wreak havoc with your emotions. The only way to make these relationships work is if you and your partner honestly believe you will be able to survive without each other for a considerable amount of time without the need or desire to be with someone else. Not only that, it also requires more of the typical "I understand you" phrase. When he will be too busy in his work or it's too impossible for him to get in contact of you, you really have to understand him with no further ados. It's not only because you have no choice, it's because you love him. You have to be positive that he's not doing anything to destroy what you both have.

As I've said, being in this kind of situation is not easy. It never was. Specially the part when you badly want someone to talk but he's not around, seems like you have no one. How to handle in this kind of emptiness takes a lot of strength and faith. Some may even test your faith in each other and even disagree with the status that you are. You can't blame those people if they have different perceptions in life. All you have to do is TRUST and have faith. All relationship must have this main ingredient, but for couples who are engaged in long distance relationships, they would have to double or triple the efforts. Is it worth the wait? It's still you who can decide. As long as your happy with someone, then continue with what you both have. And nurture it.

Remember, every kind of relationship takes hard work and dedication to your loved one or partner, whether it's long distance or proximal. If you and your partner are willing to take these steps, then expect bumps and turns in the road.

Labels: long distance relationships

What are your plans for your next birthday?
• My birthday falls on a Sunday this year, so i guess I'm staying home with my family.

Who was the last person you had a conversation with and what about?
• My mom. She was asking me what time I'll be leaving to the mall.

How are your nails?
• It's short and clean.

How is life going for you right now?
• It's pretty fine.

Are you keeping a secret from someone who needs to know the truth?
• I don't know. I guess none.

Is there any meaning behind your profile song?
• I don't have any profile song for now.

Do you believe what comes around goes around?
• Definitely.

What is your favorite fruit?
• Almost any fruit.

Do you trust people easily?
• No. That's something hard to give.

Have you met anyone new lately?
• Yeah, over the internet named Jen. She is such a nice lass.

Do you give out second chances easily?
• Nope.

Do you like hugs or do you freak when people hug you?
• I like hugs but not with just anyone, that freaks me out.

Are you a lover or a fighter?
• A fighter.

What color are your eyes?
• Dark brown

When was the last time you went out?
• Last night, off to work.

Who made you smile today?
• He has not called yet, so I guess I'll be smiling later. :)

Do you smile a lot?
• You bet!

Best thing that happened to you this week?
• Pay day. Haha!

Do you hate anyone?
• Nope. It's not me.

What's a happy time you've had today?
• When I was talking to my 4 year old nephew.

Are you an emotional person?
• At times, yes.

Are you self conscious?
• Not really.

Do you keep a diary?
• I used to keep one.

Who do you feel the most comfortable around?
• With my family, my close friends and with him,

One thing you're looking forward to?
• The day he'll be home from Miami. Though we both do not know the exact date.

Do you think anyone out there loves you?
• Yes.

Have you ever seen your best friend cry?
• Yes.

What is the last thing you ate?
• Lunch. Porkchop and rice.

What color are the curtains of your room?
• yellow

Where did you get the shirt you're wearing?
• I asked my sister to buy this for me.

Is anything bothering you right now?
• Not yet. hehe.

Does anything hurt on your body right now?
• Thank God, none.

Have you ever liked someone who treated you like crap?
• Yes, decades ago.

What happens tomorrow?
• Tomorrow is holiday in our town. No work. Yipee!

What does your hair look like right now?
• It's down.

Has anyone been disappointed in you recently?
• I don't really know. I hope no one is.

What is your favorite number?
• 8 (fengshui?).

Labels: friendster, survey

I took a personality test today. Little did I know I am the ISFJ (Introvert, Sensing, Feeling, Judging) type of person.

And here's the summary of the ISFJ personality.

At work, ISFJs contribute loyal, sympathetic, consistent, and considerate service to others. They are know for their kindness and for their willingness to go to any length to help those in need. They take the practical needs of people into account when they do their work, and their strong follow-through skills allow them to carry out organizational goals. They do at least what is expected to them and oftentimes more, without attracting attention to themselves. They are painstaking and responsible with detail and routine, and feel it is important to have the right things in the right places at the right times.

I have googled about this, it says this kind of personality is like that of Maria Theresa. Wooh! You mean someone with a golden heart eh?
More or less the personality I took was accurate. Oh well, in some ways I am ISFJ, maybe in other ways maybe I'm not. I would just say, it depends upon the situation I'm in.