I'm not really good in words when describing or to let you understand what I want to impart but I'll be writing this topic based on experience.

Back to the lather, yes, long distance relationships. Difficult and really takes a lot of trust between the two of you. Long distance relationships are difficult, as you are emotionally attached to a person you cannot touch or comfort (hug, kiss or hold hands) and this can hurt your heart and wreak havoc with your emotions. The only way to make these relationships work is if you and your partner honestly believe you will be able to survive without each other for a considerable amount of time without the need or desire to be with someone else. Not only that, it also requires more of the typical "I understand you" phrase. When he will be too busy in his work or it's too impossible for him to get in contact of you, you really have to understand him with no further ados. It's not only because you have no choice, it's because you love him. You have to be positive that he's not doing anything to destroy what you both have.

As I've said, being in this kind of situation is not easy. It never was. Specially the part when you badly want someone to talk but he's not around, seems like you have no one. How to handle in this kind of emptiness takes a lot of strength and faith. Some may even test your faith in each other and even disagree with the status that you are. You can't blame those people if they have different perceptions in life. All you have to do is TRUST and have faith. All relationship must have this main ingredient, but for couples who are engaged in long distance relationships, they would have to double or triple the efforts. Is it worth the wait? It's still you who can decide. As long as your happy with someone, then continue with what you both have. And nurture it.

Remember, every kind of relationship takes hard work and dedication to your loved one or partner, whether it's long distance or proximal. If you and your partner are willing to take these steps, then expect bumps and turns in the road.

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